New Year: Endless Possibilities (Again)
Happy New Year! Let's talk about the biggest lesson I've learned this year (well, in 2022). It's January 1st, 2023!! Where did the time go?! I haven't updated my blog…
How To Heal From Self-Sabotage
Let's talk about self-sabotage. What does it mean to me? Let me illustrate it for you. Picture this: 7 candles are lit, focus music is playing, a lap desk is…
Can You Be Passionate About More Than One Thing?
Knowing what we are passionate about is puzzling to decipher becauseto accept the truth beneath our own fluff is difficult. Knowing the "self" is more grueling than it's given credit…
Overthinking: The New “It” Factor
With my constant battle to fight off overthinking and worrying, I've hit a dead-end, a cul-de-sac, of the pure rampage in my mind. I was talking to my grandma yesterday…
Is Your Love Patient?
Written by Ashley Lopez Love doesn't always promise transparencyor honesty.Love doesn't always put someone else first.Love doesn't guarantee fulfillmentor unceasing happiness.Love doesn't always meet yourexpectations. Love isn't always a feeling,…
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I’m in Chicago, baby!
Written by Ashley Lopez Yo girl is in Chicago writing this blog post real quick from Dollop Coffee Shop in Chicago, Illinois! Hi beautiful readers, welcome back to Ashley Spills.…
Why I Ended A Best-Friendship Of Over 10 Years
Written by Ashley Lopez It's officially been over a year since I've stopped talking to one of my best friends. As the months go by, holidays and birthdays pass, I…
Why I Love To Gossip (The Real Tea)
Written by Ashley Lopez Gossip: Can't live with it, can't live without it. And how tempting it is to gossip sometimes. Oh so tempting. Especially when there's something, or someone,…
How Is Seeking A Different Opinion Important?
Written by Ashley Lopez Well, I'm back in California and today marks one month since I have posted anything on my blog. Geez—that just flew by. Sorry everyone. I know…
Be Grateful and Count Your Blessings
Written by Ashley Lopez My two weeks in Peru have given me the experience of showering with a pail and a bucket of water. Hi beautiful readers, welcome back to…