Written by Ashley Lopez
I quit my nine to five job and my last day was yesterday. I quit to pursue freelance work as a copywriter and virtual assistant. I’m overwhelmed with fear and joy.
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I did secure a steady gig, so I don’t know why I’m so nervous—but I am. Maybe it’s the whole 1099 tax form thing, but I knew what I was getting myself into when I decided to make this career move. The uncertainty scares me because what if I fail?
That’s the thing though, I refuse to fail.
Why I quit my job
Scary things lead to good things and I truly believe I made the right decision. I’ve struggled so much with my various jobs due to lack of interest, being confined in an office, and just feeling genuinely sad at work. At some point I started thinking I was just lazy and hated working, but that was not the case.
I understand our jobs aren’t supposed to be a walk in the park or some fairytale lala land, but why shouldn’t they be? Why am I required to work until I’m 65 just to finally retire? I will not live restrained in an office. Wherever this journey takes me, I’m sure it’ll lead me somewhere incredible.
Having the flexibility to work from wherever I want is something that has intrigued me for a few years now. While my last job was secure and had good benefits, I felt so restricted every single day. This job opened my eyes and helped me understand what was lacking from my career: freedom and passion.
Success is different for everyone
At times I feel unsuccessful when I compare myself to others. I’m starting to understand that success looks different on everyone. I need to keep reminding myself that.
I know there are amazing jobs out there and some people love the nine to five life. Everyone is different and I think it’s so beautiful that we all have our own unique individuality to do what makes us happy. That’s what keeps the world going.
I quit my job because it made me happy.
Every day is a blessing and you are allowed to change your mind as many times as you want. I know I have. No one is allowed to make you feel like less just because you aren’t following the norm.
If you needed a sign to take that leap of faith to pursue whatever it is that’s on your mind, this is that sign.
Our lives should not be limited to a few things—it should be limitless because we are capable of so much. I don’t know where I’m headed, but I know where I’ve been and I don’t want to go back. I will always keep pushing to go forward.
This week I challenge you to start researching something that’s been on your mind that you’d like to try, but haven’t actually looked into it. This is step one.
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